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RETURN.

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CONFIDENCE STARTS HERE →

You don’t need another version of yourself. You need a gentle push and permission to remember who you were before the world told you to be quieter, be nicer, play smaller. This is not self-help, it’s a self-return. I’m here to walk that path back to yourself with you.

Women

High-Achieving

Personal Growth For

You’ve done everything "right."
You built the career.
You honored your commitments.
You showed up for everyone else.

(and you played it well)

You played
the game

So why don’t you feel it in your whole body and soul, and see it in your bank account?

From the outside, you’re successful.

As you chased every checkbox, you abandoned yourself.

You’ve forgotten how to trust yourself. 

This is why:

You lost your instinct to make bold and confident moves.

But I promise you: you can reset.

You are already courageous, authentic, and highly capable.

You just have to return to it.

This 5-level formula brings you back to the woman who shows up, speaks up, and inspires the world to do it, too.

It’s not Self-Help. It’s Self-Return.

by Sladja

Confidence Formula

introducing

Inside Confidence Formula, you will learn:

Build a sustainable practice of returning to yourself, so confidence isn’t a one-time win but a lifelong state of self-ownership.

How to Rise, Repeat, and Stay Rooted

Move from insight into bold action with structures, habits, and choices that reinforce your new identity instead of pulling you back into old patterns.

Turning Confidence Into Action

Learn strategies to stop measuring yourself against others and instead anchor your value in your own vision of success.

How to Break the Cycle of Comparison Once and for All

Remove the mask, step into your zone of genius, and give yourself permission to live as the truest version of yourself, even if it makes others uncomfortable.

Living in Authentic Alignment

Understand that true confidence isn’t about bravado or perfection, it’s about deep self-worth and trust in your own resilience.

The Real Definition of Confidence (And Why You’ve Had It Backwards)

Reprogram the stories you tell yourself from “not enough” to “more than capable,” using practical exercises rooted in psychology and mindset work.

How to Flip Your Inner Script

Recognize the inputs (social media, relationships, even internalized cultural messages) that keep you stuck in doubt, and clear space for self-trust to grow.

Detoxing the Noise That Clouds Your Mind

Learn how to say no with courage, protect your energy, and stop outsourcing your worth to other people’s approval.

How to Set Boundaries Without Guilt

Identify the exact patterns of comparison, perfectionism, and people-pleasing that have chipped away at your natural confidence since childhood.

Why You’ve Been Shrinking, and How to Stop

Stop living by borrowed beliefs and external expectations, and reconnect with the voice inside that always knew who you were.

How to Hear and Trust Your Own Inner Voice Again

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It’s about reclaiming the confident, powerful woman you’ve always been — and trusting her fully.

This isn’t about “fixing” yourself.

– Lubi P. 

"This work cracked me open. For the first time, I’ve put myself at the center. Not out of selfishness, but out of a need for my own truth."

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Caution: Side effects may include sudden confidence, increased self worth, and chronic self-respect.

You were born for more. You were meant to make decisions that change trajectories. You were built to carve paths, to inspire, to do.

Deep down, you already know that. You’re just afraid to claim it.

Enter this freeing space with me. 

It’s a place where we trust our instincts, embrace our flaws, and show up in our lives without apology, without performing, and without permission.

I’m done watching women shrink for everyone else.

Your most empowering  cheerleader.

I’m Sladja —

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Kind words from P.T.

Sladja didn’t let me hide behind success or intellect. She challenged me to stop performing and start living.

time to change

The people you are always pleasing don't want you
to change.

find your confidence score

Answer nine questions to uncover just how confident you are. This is where your self-return begins.

Maybe you’re in a budding self-awareness stage. Maybe you’re close to locking in unshakeable self-respect.

No matter your starting point, Confidence Formula meets you where you are.

Confidence

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Score

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This short, powerful masterclass will teach you how to stop tying your worth to external success — and start believing you are enough, exactly as you are.

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Learn why external validation is so important to you, and start overcoming imposter syndrome in four simple exercises.

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You spent enough time inside the shell you've built. 
It's a pretty one, but you've outgrown it.
These tools move you closer to the confident, self-trusting woman you already are.

You spent enough time inside the shell you've built. 

It's a pretty one, but you've outgrown it.

These tools move you closer to the confident, self-trusting woman you already are.

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It’s not Self-Help.

It’s Self-Return.